I am having the time of my life here. I am seeing unbelievable things. My school is a castle. My family are saints. My friends come from every corner of the world. I have learned more than I thought was possible in less than three months. Yet every once and I while, I feel like I would give anything just to see my friends and family from home. This week has been like that for me. It’s always a combination of events that stirs up my feelings of homesickness. I have been doing Christmas shopping, I found out I won’t have my soccer licence before my season finishes, it is only one month before I move on to my second family, it was my one year anniversary with Branden, and, I had a head cold. The week was a test for me, a challenge to pull myself together and to remember to love this beautiful life I’m living. Sometimes I feel as though I am not my whole self here. Like some part of me is distracted and stuck back in Canada. These are the days when I’m most homesick. However, these days don’t occur often anymore. Nothing like my first month here. Just every so often, and I have learned to deal with it. Since Tessin, I have much to tell, and I hope you will enjoy my stories from October! J
School
In school, I actually showed up for my first test (my teachers say I do not need to come to school when we have tests). My biology class is all practical work with microscopes, so I figured it couldn’t be too bad. I am not yet sure how it went, (can’t be worse than my physics test when the only mark of the paper was my name!) but I was done approximately an hour before any other student. I drew wonderfully detailed pictures of what I saw in my microscope, and made some random guesses about what the oddly shaped blobs, dots, and squiggles in my picture might be. The last question was “explain in detail why…” and then I stopped translating because I knew it was hopeless from there on in. I’m not giving up, I’m being realistic, I promise. While I get the gist of things in bio, I certainly am nowhere close to the whole concepts and ideas! I went home early for lunch and slept for about two hours before my next class.
In sports, if I have understood correctly (good chance I haven’t, but let’s hope I have) gymnastic is finished. Last week consisted of me missing the matt completely after the trampoline making have my classmates gasp in horror. Additionally, I attempted a handstand that turns into a somersault, hoping to leave my classmates to ooh-ing and ah-ing. This went very poorly and was more or less a handstand that turned into a back flop and left me aching and gasping for breath. For some reason the teacher asked me to be an example for a few things (with much help from her). I think it was kind of like, “look class, if Steph can do it- so can you!” But I wasn’t all bad. I mastered a few of the simpler stunts. However, this week is rugby, and I have a feeling it may be a better fit for my athletic capabilities.
In art class we had an interesting assignment which was a photo-shoot meant to capture “the other side of me”. I decided to portray myself as a child- always growing, learning, changing, all is new, possibilities are endless, etc. I was in a group with two other girls and our photo-shoot was by the river at school. It was a ton of fun, even though I was really sick, and we ended up with hilarious photos. I felt ridiculous with my hair in French braids at school, but I didn’t care too much. It was definitely the highlight of my time at school this week.
Stay a child, while you can be a child. Smile, dance, play, sing, dream, learn, and imagine. Never base your actions on what someone else may think of you. |
Also, I have been exempt from my English classes! This is good because I no longer have to fake that I understand the crazy grammatical rules and structures of the unfairly structures English language. I spend my free periods practicing piano, reading, napping in the sunshine in the vineyard/garden or studying German. My German is still improving. I went to my special German classes for exchange students and saw a classmate I haven’t seen since before vacation. He comes from Italy. We talked for about ten minutes before he said, “whoa! We are speaking in German!”
I said, “Yes, I thought you spoke better German than English?”
“We yes, but the last time I saw you only spoke English!”
That was really, super cool.
Friends from Far and Wide
Last weekend, we had some very interesting guests in our house from the only country more expensive than Switzerland itself. Iceland. They were two men here part of a large choir performing in an Icelandic festival here. They both spoke fairly good English, and so for the duration of their stay, we also spoke English at home. It was the absolute strangest thing to hear Daria speaking English to me. Not because she isn’t good- she’s incredible, but because we just always speak German to each other. Anyways, the Icelanders had slightly nocturnal sleeping habits, which meant that I was awake every night until about one in the morning learning about Icelandic history, culture, and language. It was incredibly interesting. I didn’t even know where it was on a map until last weekend. The coolest thing I learned was that people don’t have a last name like we do. There is no “family name”. Your last name is your father’s (or sometimes mother’s) first name joined with “son” (English-son) or “dottier” (English-daughter). So my name would be Stephanie Philipsdottier. Cool huh?
Last weekend was also very exciting for me because one of my friends from school was turning eighteen and I was invited to her birthday dinner. About eight girls from my class were there and we had a great meal and played a lot of games. We played charades (semi-difficult with the language barrier) and then a vocabulary/word game (extremely difficult with the language barrier) but it was still just so nice to be included and spend time with my Swiss friends.
As interesting and amazing as it is making foreign friendships, sometimes there is just nothing like spending time with someone from home. One of my best friends here comes from Calgary and we often joke that we were somehow separated at birth. It funny to think that we come from the same country and have met each other so many miles away. We spent last Sunday together in Zurich, just talking and catching up since our last Rotary meeting in Luzern ages ago. We ate bratwurst and buns (the size of full loaves of bread) by the lake and treated ourselves to 100x overpriced Starbucks coffee. My chai tea latte emptied my wallet, but warmed me up perfectly (it’s getting cold here now) and reminded me fondly of my Daddy’s famous chai tea Sundays. I showed her my school (sometime I forget how beautiful it is as I walk purposefully from class to class) and she came to my house for dinner. I showed her my pride and joy which I have created in the last month- a colour coded, perfectly organized, list of 150 German verbs categorized as to how they are conjugated in past tense. You may think I’m crazy, but she appreciated it with enthusiasm. I love when people just get me.
October 24th was a very important day for me last year, and I still remember it very well. I met Branden’s dad for the first time and we went fishing together in Wasaga. It was a cold and dreary kind of day. I was having the time of my life. I had the big tall boots on so I could stand in the river, since my cast was by far the shortest. I lost my worm with almost every cast and I even managed to get my hook stuck in the trees behind me- twice. We all had Tim Horton’s coffee and we caught a beautiful little fish- “we” being Branden’s dad. That morning was when Branden and I started dating. I came home later that day and had dinner with my family. We were watching TV when the phone rang. Chris grabbed the phone but didn’t pick up, he handed to me instead. I saw the display name and immediately felt my heart begin to race. I picked up and shakily said hello. Ralph said to me in a straight-forward tone. “Stephanie, I am afraid I have some bad news for you.” My heart sunk. I wasn’t going on exchange. I hadn’t been chosen for the program. I mumbled some nonsense about being thankful for being considered when he spoke again. “You are going to have to spend an entire year away from your family for exchange.” In between ridiculously dramatic sobs of happiness I thanked him many times before making about twenty phone calls. On October 24th this day I was given two amazing things. This year, was just a normal Monday afternoon-until a knock on my door came with someone requesting “Stephanie Edmunds”. An enormous basket of my very favourite flowers (no idea what they are called- but I guess Branden knew!) came with a wonderful card. Once again, I became an embarrassing puddle of tears, but it was a very special moment. I see the flowers every day and of reminded of a very special person working in Yellowknife. Thank you Branden- from across the world you made my day!
While a Starbucks coffee costs 8Francs, I have now found the best place in the country to spend money (because God knows it burns holes in my pockets). I have become acquainted with Baden’s Monthly Flea market- and I have fallen in love. The only problem is- I am often drawn to the things I am not allowed to have. When I have six pairs of jeans, I am attracted to the jeans section. When I have three pink tee-shirts, I am suddenly magnetized to a counter of more pink tee shirts. Here, I have limited space. I was therefore unfortunately drawn to large woollen clothing items. I did limit myself however. My purchases came down to: a large man’s wool sweater, a puffy pink extra-long wool scarf, and fabulously colourful wool socks (they are two different sizes). ALL FOR 13 FRANCS! I could spend my life’s savings there. I will one hundred percent be re-visiting next month. And all of the months after that as well. Nothing like a good flea market to put homesickness far, far away.
Wooo for wool! :) |
Tomorrow starts a new week and I know it will be a good one. It gets dark here at about five thirty now, but when the sun shines the trees are all so beautifully coloured and it’s so nice to be outside. I have been running a lot, and doing crossfit on the farm path just a minute from my house which has been really cool. And really necessary with the Swiss diet. I am happy, healthy (well, getting there), and focusing on the good things in my life, which isn’t hard to do when you’re in a place like this! Ps. did you know my year is already approximately ¼ finished? It’s crazy. I don’t even know what to think about it!
Love always,
Steph